16 Sex Moves to Surprise Your Boyfriend & Get Him Hard and Horny

If you’re looking to surprise your boyfriend, why not learn a couple of new sex moves to surprise your boyfriend? This is one gift he’ll be happy to get!

Let’s face it, no matter how much you love your partner, sometimes sex becomes a little routine. You have the positions that you both know will do the trick, so why would you change it? But sticking to the same routine can make sex stale. No one wants that to happen which is why you’re wanting some sex moves to surprise your boyfriend.

It means being a little creative and putting in some work. Yeah, I know, you thought the chemistry would speak for itself and last forever. To some extent, you’re not wrong. But at the same time, work on keeping it alive as well. No one tells you this when you’re in a relationship!

The best sex moves to surprise your boyfriend

I know you love your partner and want to surprise them with something special. And this is a great surprise. Really, it’s the only kind where he won’t say, “You know I don’t like surprises.”

Of course, surprising him with his favorite meal or a new vinyl record is always appreciated, but this one will leave both of you very satisfied. [Read: 15 sex moves he will love and then beg you for more]

So, I’m going to tell you some sex moves you can use the next time you’re with your boyfriend. Whether he’s had a bad day at work or it’s his birthday, these moves will work like a charm. Everyone likes sexy surprises.

#1 Take it slow. You may have sex at a quicker pace, but now, it’s time to slow it down. Just by slowing down the pace, your sex will automatically become more intense and sensual. Quickies are fun, but it’s good to switch it up from time to time.

#2 Sex toys, anyone? If you don’t have sex with toys, how about surprising him with one. If you have never used one before, even better! It’s an adventure. Start with a vibrator or cock ring, and have fun playing around with it. [Read: 13 must-have sex toys all couples should use]

#3 Bring a dessert to bed. If you’re looking for sex moves to surprise your boyfriend and don’t mind getting the bed a little messy, then bring a dessert to bed. Put whip cream on your breasts and vagina, or let him lick chocolate syrup off of your navel. It’s hot, it’s sticky, it’s sexy. This isn’t something you do every day, but when you do it, it’s amazing.

#4 Get role-playing. Maybe his biggest fantasy is to have sex with a nurse or a teacher. Well, who says you need to be a licensed nurse to wear a uniform? Go to the costume store and pick up a couple of sexy outfits. When he comes home, welcome him in a teacher’s outfit and tell him he’s been a bad boy. 

#5 Bring a mirror into the bedroom. Most people do not have a giant mirror in their bedroom, but why not switch it up. Having sex in front of a mirror can be very arousing, and it’ll give your guy a better angle to watch you. Mirrors let his eyes look where they usually can’t.

#6 Let him watch you masturbate. Many of us are nervous about the idea of having our partners watch us masturbate, but it’s hot! You can even make it more intense by not allowing him to touch you or himself. He just has to sit there and take it while you’re moaning in delight. [Read: How to make yourself wet and get all lubed up]

#7 If you’re submissive, switch it up. If you’re usually the submissive one in bed, switch up the power dynamics. Instead of him controlling the sex, tell him what to do. You don’t have to become a full dominatrix. “Sit down. Come. Touch me here. Lay down.” Those few lines will hit the spot. 

#8 Change the location. The sex can be amazing, but when you’re looking for sex moves to surprise your boyfriend, sometimes all you need to do is switch up the location. Have sex in the woods, car, on the balcony, or in the bathroom of a club. Changing the location adds a little bit of danger and spice to the mix.

#9 Give his balls some love. They’re always the ones ignored, but they need love too. If you usually skip his balls, surprise him by giving them attention. Gently play with his balls in your hand or lick/suck on them during a blow job. When done right, it feels great. [Read: 13 titillating moves to make you the blow job queen]

#10 Anal play. Some men aren’t into anal play, but that’s usually because of the stigma associated with it. However, anal play can feel amazing for men as that’s where the male G-spot is. Of course, get consent from him first. After, circle his anus with your tongue or fingers, loosening the area. Then slide your fingers, tongue, or toy into his anus.

#11 Sit on his face. That’s right. Sit on his face. Usually, during oral sex, the man will literally go down on the woman. But, instead, climb on top of him and sit on his face. It’s easier for him too as your pussy will float on top of his face. 

#12 Put the condom on. If you’re like me, you hand the condom to your partner, and they do the rest. It’s not a bad move, but it’s not hot and passionate. So, instead, put it on with your mouth. You may want to practice beforehand with a banana or sex toy to get the hang of it. But once you do, he’ll love it.

#13 Tell him what you like. How often do you tell him what you want him to do to you? Probably not often. Usually, we wait for the guy to figure out what we like. But, sometimes men want to be told what to do. And now is your chance to do it.

#14 Get in the shower. If you don’t have a big shower then skip this one or else you could get injured. But, if you have a walk-in shower – use it!  In the morning, start the shower and while he’s waking up, invite him in with you. A little morning shower sex never hurt anyone. And it’ll start the day off with a bang!

#15 Play around with light bondage. No, you don’t need to be handcuffed to your bedposts, but being lightly tied up with a scarf can do the trick. This lets you play with power dynamics in bed and lets him take control. [Read: 17 sex moves to stifle the yawn and go crazy in bed]

#16 You make the move. Many women wait for their partner to make a move, but why? If you’re always waiting for him to make the move, surprise him by being the one who makes the first move. You don’t need to cover your body in chocolate or wear new underwear. Just be the one to take the initiative.

[Read: How to spice up the 7 most common sex positions]

Not everyone likes surprises, but use some of these sex moves to surprise your boyfriend the next time you want to spice things up in the bedroom.