We see it on TV and movies all the time, but how do affairs start…
Without even realizing it, you probably do several of the things girls do that guys love. It’s totally subconscious, but it drives guys wild!
We’re all totally unique. How we think, feel, dress, and act on any given day depends upon a huge range of different variables. However, there are many things girls do that guys love. You might not even be aware you’re doing them!
For instance, do you bite your lip when you’re concentrating? You might have to think carefully about whether you do or not, but it’s something which many guys find adorable about a girl.
However, it’s important to point out that not all guys find the same things attractive or cute. We also all find different things cute and sassy![Read: Girly things you do unintentionally that drive guys wild]
12 things girls do that guys love
After polling a few of my guy friends, I’ve come up with a list of things girls do that guys love. Think about whether you do these without realizing it or not. You might be sending the guys in your life crazy without knowing about it!
#1 Playing with their hair. Much of the time, girls play with their hair when they’re listening, talking, watching something on TV, concentrating, or, of course, when they’re flirting.
Did you know that guys find this pretty cute and in some cases downright sexy? It’s true! However, playing with your hair has to be casual. If you try and do it on purpose, it just won’t translate in the same way. [Read: 25 tips to look really cute and melt any guy’s heart effortlessly]
#2 Being affectionate “just because.” Of course, not all girls are cuddly and regularly affectionate. Many guys love the fact that some girls don’t think twice about showing affection. Cuddles, gentle nudges and smiles, kisses on the cheek, impromptu neck massages, these are all ways that girls show affection to the person in their life.
#3 Being sassy enough to stand up for themselves. When something isn’t quite right, standing up for yourself is one of the things girls do that guys love. It drives them crazy. Of course, most men love a strong girl/woman.
Again, you probably do this without thinking. If something isn’t quite right, if someone calls you out on something that isn’t your fault, make sure you stand up for yourself. [Read: The 30 sassy traits of feisty girls that make them amazing]
#4 Dressing for themselves. Dressing for you and only you is one of the most confident and powerful things you can do. It means that you’re not bothered what other people think about your style. You’re only interested in making yourself feel good. It shows that you have personality and uniqueness. It’s certainly one of the things girls do that guys love.
#5 Showing real body confidence. This isn’t a truth for all girls, because we live in a time when women’s bodies are scrutinized like never before. Learning to accept your body and love it for the wonderful and sexy thing it is can be difficult for many. The effort to do this is worth it for how strong it will make you feel.
As a rather wonderful side effect, it makes guys stand up and take notice. It’s not about the type of body you have, it’s about the confidence you have within it that counts.
#6 Really taking the time to listen. Most girls are pretty good listeners, because they have that empathy and gentle spirit that wants to nurture. Guys love it when you show them your full attention and really listen to them. It helps them to feel supported and loved, and it’s often not something they get from their guy friends!
#7 The way their face lights up when they talk about things they’re passionate about. When a girl talks about something she loves to do, or something she’s truly passionate about, her expression changes. She comes alive! Her eyes are wide and sparkling, she smiles, and she expresses her emotions clearly for all to see.
It’s certainly one of the things girls do that guys love. Don’t be afraid to let people know about your passions in life! [Read: What are you passionate about? How to find and own your desires?]
#8 Teasing them in a cute and harmless way. Guys love it when girls tease them in a fun way. Of course, that doesn’t mean ripping him to shreds but a teasing remark about something that he doesn’t find offensive.
If he’s a terrible cook, a cute and teasing remark, accompanied by a nudge and a disarming smile is something he loves to see. Whether he thinks he’s a great cook or not! The fact is, a guy knows that when a girl teases him in this way, it’s because she likes him! [Read: How to tease a guy and make him realize he’s falling for you]
#9 They show true loyalty to their friends. Nothing comes between a girl and her squad. Despite the fact that guys might be a bit annoyed about how close you are to your friends sometimes and the slight issue of oversharing information, they admire the loyalty you show to your pals. It shows him that you’re a loyal and true person. Of course, everyone wants those qualities in a partner.
#10 She becomes his biggest fan. When a girl is crazy about a guy, she becomes his biggest fan and supporter. She will encourage him, push him to do the things she knows he will excel at, and she has his back through it all. This is one of the things girls do that guys love. It makes him feel like he can take on the world and win. [Read: What guys look for in girls – 13 things that catch EVERY guy’s eye]
#11 The ability to show vulnerability, but kick ass too. Girls have a wonderful habit of showing true vulnerability and care for themselves and other people. However, when the need arises, they can truly kick ass too! This is something guys love. It shows fire and passion with that soft side that encompasses femininity.
It’s entirely possible to be soft and loving while also being able to click into “don’t mess with me” mode. In fact, it’s encouraged! [Read: How to feel good about yourself and kick ass in all aspects of life]
#12 How they go crazy over cute animals. I asked several of my guys friends about the things girls do that guys love. Most of them came up with this rather odd suggestion. They adore it when girls go all mushy over cute animals! So, the next time you see a puppy and you can’t help but turn into a puddle of goo. Go for it, he loves it! [Read: What guys notice first about a girl – 1 of these 12 things]
We should probably remember that all guys are different. Some guys might find it annoying that you can’t help but stop in the middle of the street and turn all gushy over cute animals. Others might become annoyed when you tease them, because they don’t know you well enough to understand that you don’t mean it.
It’s a personal deal in many ways, but there are general points which most guys can’t help but find adorable about a girl. [Read: 25 things guys find really sexy and attractive about a girl]
How many of those points do you show regularly? I probably do most of them. In fact, if I’m honest, I do all of them! Does that mean guys love me? Er, no, but it does mean that I’m being true to myself and showing these points subconsciously, without putting on a show for guys around me.
The point is that you’re doing them without realizing it because it’s part of your true nature. And that’s when it’s adorable and downright sexy.[Read: Tired of chasing? How to make a guy want you instead]
These 12 things girls do that guys love are emotions and traits that most girls show on a regular basis. Being a girl, or a woman, is about knowing how you are. There’s nothing sexier than that.