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He’s the love of your life, but what does he think about you? Before you put all your eggs in one basket, know the signs he thinks you’re the one too.
I get it, none of us want to be heartbroken so thinking about this can be stressful. Of course, there are a few really clear signs he thinks you’re the one that can help you figure out if you’re just wasting your time or if he really does see a future with you.
Relationships aren’t easy. When you’re with someone who you’re not 100% sure about, it makes you wonder why you’re even wasting your time with them. I went on so many dates, but I just couldn’t seem to find that click.
You know exactly what I’m talking about. I didn’t feel I could miss a day without shaving or forget to wear deodorant. It was like I was a robot. But then I met my boyfriend, and for the first time, I felt I could be myself without feeling judged.
That’s when I knew I met the guy I was going to be with. Now, you may be wondering if he’s the one for you, and that’s a big question to be asking yourself.
How to tell the signs he thinks you’re the one
I think what’s scarier is figuring out what they think about you. Do they think you’re the one? Take a look at these signs he thinks you’re the one and think about your relationship at the same time.
Do you see these signs in him and your relationship? Well, you need to find out eventually. And earlier is always better in this case.
#1 He tells you. Well, if he’s told you that you’re the one, then you’re good to go. Of course, there are some guys that just say this to keep you around, but if he’s displaying these signs while telling you that you’re the one, he’s being honest. There’s nothing you need to worry about. But if he’s just feeding you these lines without backing it, he’s full of shit.
#2 There’s an endless amount of time you can spend together. You could literally be next to each other every second of the day and not want to kill each other. Now, if that’s not love, I don’t know what is. Honestly. If you’ve passed the honeymoon phase and still want to spend every waking moment next to them, you’re in it for the long run.
#3 You can be yourself around each other. If you can’t relax and show your true colors around your partner, then it’s just not going to last. Eventually, you’re going to explode. But with your partner, you have literally seen the worst of each other and you’re still hanging around, so that’s an awfully promising sign.
#4 You both have similar values and morals. At the end of the day, this is extremely important. If you don’t have the same morals and values, it’s going to be a hard and difficult relationship to keep up. But if you have the same goals and futures in mind, then it shows you both are in sync. No, not the 90’s boy band, stop it!
#5 He’s completely committed to you. He’s not on Tinder, he’s not at the clubs, he’s not texting other women. He’s in the relationship. If a guy is unable to label the relationship or commit to you, there’s no way he thinks you’re the one.
But if he’s confident in the relationship and having you by his side, he’s thinking hard about your future together.
#6 You accept each other’s flaws. Sadly, no one is perfect. Even I, am not perfect *I know that was a hard one to accept*. But your man has accepted your flaws and learned to appreciate them. Yes, you may snore while you sleep but when you’re not around, he misses the annoying sound in his ear. This is what love is about, and he’s fully on board with it.
#7 He talks about the future with you. Not just about what you two are going to do next week, he’s talking about the future. Where you’re going to be traveling next year, are you interested in buying a home with him, you know, big things. This may not be a diamond ring, but it’s the next step towards one.
#8 He wants to meet all your friends and family. Usually, guys will dodge meeting any of your family or friends until they have to. But your man wants to meet your family and friends and get to know them on a personal level.
This is because he knows that they’re a part of your life and will soon be a part of his life as well. He wants a good relationship with your support system. Can you blame him?
#9 He puts you first. Yes, he has a family and friends as well, but you’re his partner and he makes sure he puts you first above everything. No, this isn’t selfish or obsessive, this is what partners should be doing. If he wants a future with you, then he needs to support you and vice versa. I mean, you may be the mother of his children!
#10 You argue the right way. Now, every couple is going to have their arguments, that’s just a part of being in a relationship. But there’s a right way to argue and a wrong way to argue.
After a heated argument, he’s not keying your car or packing his bags. Instead, you guys give each other space then talk about the argument and solve the problem at hand.
#11 For him, this relationship is different than the others. Okay, it’s stupid to assume that he never had anyone else before you, even though, you’d like to think that way. Or at least, I like to think that way. But he’ll tell you that your relationship is different from the rest, that he’s never had something like this before. Bingo! That’s what you want to hear. This love isn’t generic, it’s different, it’s special.
#12 He puts in the effort. It’s not about buying you flowers for your birthday, I’m talking about small things. When you’re sick he makes you soup, when you’re feeling sad he cuddles you endlessly. These small things are what makes a relationship and shows how much he values you by his side.
#13 He’s your biggest fan. No matter what it is that you’re doing with your life, he’s your biggest fan. If you want to finish university, he’s right by your side helping you study. If you want to push forward in your career, he’s asking you what he can do to help you. He loves you and wants to see you be the best you can be. Why? You’re his girl, and he’s your biggest fan.
So, after looking at the signs he thinks you’re the one, what do you think? Are you the one for him? If he’s showing a couple of these signs, it looks like you might be the one.