13 Hot & Heavy Sex Tricks to Impress Your Girlfriend and Excite Her

Want to surprise your girlfriend the next time you feel hot and heavy? I know what you need. Learn some new sex tricks to impress your girlfriend.

We all have our routines when it comes to sex. Is there anything wrong with that? Nope. Maybe your regular sex routine isn’t bad at all. In fact, you and your partner may be able to nail each move perfectly and finish everything up in under fifteen minutes. Again, there’s nothing wrong with that. But if you are looking to create some spice, consider learning these sex tricks to impress your girlfriend.

I have a regular sex routine with my partner and we enjoy every moment of it. But, there are times where we want to switch things up and bring a little spice into the bedroom. That’s also okay. When it comes to sex, whatever you decide together is good.

As long as the decision is made together and you’re both satisfied. Maybe she’s hinted she wants to spice things up or maybe you want to surprise her with a new move. [Read: How to spice up the missionary sex position]

Sex tricks to impress your girlfriend

If you want to change things up, it’s time to learn some sex tricks. It doesn’t matter if you’ve slept with her once or are in a long term relationship. What’s important is that you’re open-minded and willing to make an effort for the relationship.

With that being said, you probably want to get to the juicy information I have for you. I understand completely. The sooner you know, the faster you can use these tricks the next time you have sex. Are you ready? I can’t HEAR YOU. Let’s get started! [Read: How to get a girl horny and wet while simply sitting next to her!]

Oh, she’ll be shocked.

#1 Don’t jump into sex. Oh, I know you’re confused by this but hear me out. Do you know what will impress her? Not jumping right into sex. Yup, you heard me. Instead, don’t touch her. Come close to her, very close and just let her feel the body heat between the two of you. Then, after some time, pull her face toward yours and kiss her slowly. [Read: How to master your foreplay and really turn her on tonight] 

#2 It’s called foreplay. People always seem to skip this, but it’s crucial you stick to it. Foreplay is the pre-sex event that warms up your girlfriend for the main course. In other words, this is what makes her wet.

If you usually rush through foreplay, surprise her by spending time in foreplay. Get reacquainted with her body and take the time to finger her, kiss her, and perform oral sex. [Read: 17 foreplay moves that’ll make anyone really horny]

#3 Give oral. Don’t do it if you’re really not into the idea. You need to be genuinely interested in oral sex if you want the both of you to enjoy the experience. If not, it’s just going to be this awkward moment where your head is in between her legs and she’s wondering what’s going on. But if you like eating pussy, surprise her by doing it. [Read: How to eat pussy – 18 moves in between her legs that’ll blow her mind]

#4 Talk dirty. Are you sending your girlfriend dirty messages throughout the day? You should be. Dirty talk is a section of foreplay, except you don’t need to be in front of your girlfriend to make her aroused. Send her dirty messages, get her amped up for the moment she’ll see you after work. You can also talk dirty to her by whispering into her ear what you want to do to her later. [Read: 35 dirty things to say to a girl and leave her wet with desire]

#5 Give her a massage. No one likes giving massages, but everyone likes getting massages. So if you want to impress your girlfriend, put yourself to the side for a moment and surprise her with one! Once she gets a massage from you, she’ll surprise you one day with a massage as well. Buy some heating massage oil and give her a romantic body massage.

#6 Don’t rip her clothes off. When you’re with someone for so long, the sex can become routine. So instead of taking her clothes off in your usual way, take it slow. Tease her by taking off pieces of her clothing slowly and sensually. As you do it, kiss her neck and back. Make it sensual, make it spicy. This will build up the tension.

#7 Touch her in different places. You usually touch her neck and butt, but have you tried other places of her body? Touch her inner thighs, arms, every inch of her body. She won’t be used to it, but it’ll feel amazing for her.

#8 New move? You mastered your five-move combo, but it’s time to bring in a new position. She probably won’t be expecting it. Come from behind and slide your hand down into her underwear. Lay her down on the kitchen table and enter her while standing up. There are tons of positions to try, you just need to find the right one. [Read: Kinky sex positions for a wild night every day of the week]

#9 Sex toys anyone? If you want to impress your girlfriend, come home with a new sex toy. Sex toys are becoming essentials for both couples and solo masturbation. You can do your regular positions, but maybe this time throw a toy into the mix. Plus, toys sometimes do a better job at stimulating erogenous zones. 

#10 Ask her what turns her on. When we first start dating, we ask these questions and find ways to please our partner. But after a while, things become routine. Does your partner still like those sex positions? Is there something new she’s interested in? You don’t know if you don’t ask. If you want to master all the right kind of sex tricks to impress your girlfriend, ask the right kind of naughty questions all the time. [Read: 30 naughty questions for couples to keep the sexy spark alive]

#11 Try anal sex. If you haven’t tried anal sex, why don’t you? Of course, talk to your girlfriend about it and see how she feels. If she’s not on board then don’t do it. But if she’s curious why not give it a try? Just make sure you both prepare yourselves before having anal sex. [Read: How to prepare for anal sex – The beginners’ guidebook]

#12 Have a shower together. Usually, hot and steamy showers happen at the beginning of the relationship. But if you want to spice things up, why not go back to the days of making out and having sex in the shower? [Read: How to make shower sex sizzle]

#13 Impress her because you want to. If she’s bugging you to try new things and you don’t want to, don’t do it. You should genuinely want to please and impress her. If not, you should ask yourself if you really want to be in this relationship. None of these tips will work if you’re feeling like you must do them.

You now have all the sex tricks to impress your girlfriend you could possibly want. The next step is to put them into practice!