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When it comes to the type of girls men love, the high value woman takes the cake. If you want to know how to achieve this status, we have some tips.
All men want a high value woman. The problem is, a lot of women aren’t sure how to be that. Sure, you see these confident, powerful women around but usually, you don’t see any men accompanying them.
So how do you become a high value woman that men will never want to leave? It’s not as easy of a process as you think but it’s also not hard, either. A lot of the time, being this type of woman comes naturally the older you get.
The types of women men don’t like at all
Obviously, all men are different. Some like certain types of girls while others like the opposite. However, there are a couple girl types guys just can’t stand. Those are the whiney, helpless girls that walk around needing to be saved.
You might think this is cute, and perhaps some guys will even find it alluring at first, but after a while, it’ll get really annoying. Girls who can’t do anything for themselves aren’t exactly attractive. Guys don’t want to spend all their time helping their woman. [Read: 12 dating stereotypes of women in a man’s mind]
How to be a high value woman all guys lust after
If you’re ready to turn your life around for the better and attract guys all the time, these tips will help you do just that. Being a high value woman is beneficial for more than just getting guys, too. Here’s how to know your value and show it to everyone.
#1 Know your worth. You’re far more valuable than you’re giving yourself credit for already. Because you’re here, reading this, you think you’re not valuable enough. This mindset is exactly what’s holding you back from being this high value woman.
So know your worth. You have so much going for you and so many men would be lucky to have you. Once you realize that and start to own it, you will be the type of woman all guys want. [Read: 14 secrets to discover your self-worth]
#2 Demand respect. Don’t just accept it, demand it. As women, we have to work a bit harder to gain the respect of others. Instead of working for it, just demand it. If someone doesn’t respect you or what you stand for, get rid of them. You don’t need those types of people in your life and if you don’t have them around, people will start to value you more.
#3 Have confidence. This is key. If you don’t have confidence, being a high value woman won’t be easy. You can only fake it until you make it for a little while. In order to show people how great you are and become this woman men highly value, you have to believe you’re amazing. [Read: How to build self-confidence and realize you’re worth it]
#4 Settle for nothing less than what you deserve. Ever. If someone is being bad to you and you know you deserve better, then leave. This isn’t something you can really give chances for.
If a guy treats you with disrespect even once, drop him. That type of person isn’t someone you want, anyway. He can’t respect you right off the bat, then he doesn’t deserve you.
#5 Set your standards early. You really have to let your standards be known. What are you expecting from your man? What are you expecting from everyone? When people don’t meet your standards, get rid of them. It’s really that simple.
If you only keep people around you respect your standards, you’ll only have people who truly value you. Set those standards and don’t let anyone fall beneath them.
#6 Have your own life. Your significant other is not your life. Your job isn’t even your life. You have to be your own person and have our own hobbies and interests. Engage in a fun and adventurous life and maintain that even when you’re with a guy. He’ll value you far more for it. [Read: 12 ways to get a life and finally start living for yourself]
#7 Be passionate. Passion is very powerful. And this has nothing to do with being in bed together. Having passion in everything you do is far more likely to make people see you as a high value woman.
Passionate people give it their all. They put forth maximum effort and show the world they care. If you show people you care, it’ll work well for you.
#8 Hold power, but be soft. You can be a very powerful woman while also being soft and feminine. This stems from having people’s respect. When you demand respect and do so in a very subtle way, you end up holding a lot more power than you think.
This allows you to be powerful, while also maintaining your soft, feminine side. This is what a high value woman is all about. Work toward being powerful, but in a subtle way. [Read: How to be a lady who awes her man and everyone else]
#9 Don’t always be available. You can’t always be available for your man. Firstly, because you just aren’t. Don’t cancel plans just because he wants to do something last minute. No. You have a life and you’re not free for him whenever he beckons.
This makes you a high value woman because it teaches men to respect your time and to appreciate the time they get with you. When you’re busy, they’ll feel like they have to schedule time with you far in advance because they don’t want to miss out. That’s value.
#10 Say no. Don’t always be so agreeable. You can say no. If you truly have a differing opinion or don’t want to do something, just say no. A lot of women think the key to getting guys to like them is to just agree with whatever they say.
It’s really quite the opposite. Saying no and standing your ground creates respect. They’ll learn more about you and admire you standing up for what you believe in or just doing what you want and not just what they want. [Read: How to say no and stop being a people pleaser]
#11 Be respectful. It’s not enough to just have respect to be a high value woman. You also have to be respectful of others all the time. Basically, just be a decent human being. A lot of girls get this wrong because they assume a high value woman is a woman in charge.
And they think being in charge means being a bitch. That’s not the case. Respect everyone no matter what and show guys this. They won’t want to let a kind, respectful woman go.
#12 Have class, but let your naughty side out. You can be classy while also being sexy. It’s not like you have to choose between them. A high value woman knows how to balance the two seamlessly.
Have class and be respectful of others, but also show a guy you know how to have a good time. Flirt with him in a “good girl” way so he can see that even though you’re one classy woman, you’re also naughty and have a devious side. He’ll value that in you.[Read: What men like in women more than anything else]
Being a high value woman is all about knowing who you are, and owning it. Let your true colors shine and know your worth. If you know it, all men will too.