If you’re wondering why those naughty women seem to get their way when you’re barely scraping by, these reasons will shed some light on just that.
It’s no secret that naughty women are basically taking over. While the good girls might be getting by with a better reputation, the naughty ones are getting exactly what they want. And you know what? It might not seem very fair but there are reasons they’re the ones getting away with what they want.
And there’s a reason you’re falling behind in comparison. It doesn’t really have much to do with how good or naughty you are, actually. It has to do with the qualities naughty girls possess that you’re holding back.
The reason men are drawn to naughty women the most
Sure, some guys say they like the “good girls” but really, most men are drawn to the edgy, naughtier women. It’s not necessarily because they think they’ll get laid by getting with a naughty woman but has more to do with the fact that those women don’t mess around.
They want what they want and they’ll be sure to tell them. It’s that confidence they’re drawn to. It’s badass and makes them genuinely more attractive. So if you think a guy likes a naughty girl because he thinks he’ll get laid, think again. There’s a lot more to it than that. [Read: 12 bad girl traits every guy wants in his girl]
Why do naughty women always seem to get what they want?
It’s the question on every good girl’s mind and honestly, it’s a good one. How come these women who are on the naughtier side always get just what they want? Here’s why – and it might not be what you think.
#1 They’re confident as hell. If you’re a good girl, you can still be confident but you probably don’t have the same level of confidence as naughty women. Meaning, you don’t ooze it like they do. When you have so much confidence it radiates off of you, it makes people want to follow you and listen to you.
And that’s exactly how naughty women seem to get their way. When they talk, people listen and they do whatever it is they’re asking. People who have that level of confidence can always get their way when they try hard enough. [Read: 10 subtle body language moves to appear more confident]
#2 They don’t take no for an answer. Naughty women are not ones to listen if someone tells them no. They’ll do it anyway. And most of the time, their disobedience pays off well.
They know what they’re doing when they refuse to listen to a no. They’re not trying to be rebellious, they just know what’s best and the person refusing them is in the wrong. This makes them seem naughty, but really, they’re actually doing good.
#3 They work hard. Have you ever known a naughty girl to be lazy? No. They work hella hard to get what they want and that’s usually why they’re able to get what they want. They’ve worked for it. If you want to start getting just what you want, then you need to start working just as much as a naughty girl. [Read: How to motivate yourself to do pretty much anything]
#4 They make others work for them. When you’re a nice, good girl, you probably feel a little guilty asking someone else to do work for you. Naughty women just don’t care. They’ll command you to do something for them without the blink of an eye.
And guess what. It works. People listen to someone who’s stern and tells them what to do, especially when they have the confidence naughtier women have. Don’t feel bad if someone is supposed to work for you. And if you just want to make someone else do the work, act like you’re in charge and it’ll get done.
#5 They don’t take shit from anyone. They have just about zero tolerance for shit people give them. They don’t allow it. The second someone tries to put down a naughty girl, she stands up even taller and squashes them. They know their worth and are not afraid to fight tooth and nail to make sure others know it, too. [Read: How to stand up for yourself to get what you want and deserve]
#6 They stick to their word. Not only do naughty women make bold statements, they stick to those words. They won’t promise you something and then not follow through with it.
That means when they talk, people listen and they believe them. They earn the trust of just about everyone. Some of their statements may be a little on the edgy and naughty side, but the fact that they keep their word despite those statements is what makes them naughty – and able to get their way.
#7 The take risks. You can’t deny that naughty women take some serious risks. Those risks are what give them the label as being naughty, edgy girls. However, those risks are also what pays off in the long run. They get more because they risk more.
Sure, they might lose pretty big if they’re risking a lot but that just means they can also win even bigger. Sometimes those risks are worth it in order to get just what you want. [Read: 18 ways to take risks and become more spontaneous in life]
#8 They don’t care what people think of them. This is really the key here. They just don’t give a shit what people think of them. They’re fully themselves without apology and sometimes, that’s needed if you want to get somewhere in life.
You can’t worry about what someone else will think about you. Being able to go with your gut and not give a shit is essential for making stuff happen for yourself. Learn from naughty women and just stop caring.
#9 They don’t play by the rules. The rules are meant to be broken. They are for naughty women, at least. They don’t have any interest in the rules. It’s their job to do what they want and do whatever they can to get what they want.
And that’s partly why they end up with the reputation of being bad. They’re rule-breakers. However, bypassing the rules is what got them to where they are. So maybe you should think about adopting this technique if you want to get what you want. [Read: 22 rules of life you need to follow if you want to be happy]
#10 They’re fiercely independent. Meaning, they get shit done on their own. They know how to hold their own and they don’t need to rely on anyone else to get them what they way. And sometimes this independent attitude comes across as naughty and badass. It earned them their reputation and it also earned them everything they have.
The reason naughty women seem to get what they want has more to do with their other qualities and less to do with the fact that they’re actually naughty. Take a page from their book so you can own your life and get what you want.